

Now I wonder if it isn’t that she became attracted to me because I was acting uncharacteristic of myself (by filing for divorce).Īlso, you probably manage to keep mystery and excitement in the bedroom due to your mutual adventure of exploring kinks. I (stupidly) thought our marriage had somehow repaired itself, because we enjoyed each other’s company again, it was exciting, and we were happy.

We lived apart, and she ironically had never been so lustful. When our marriage had hit a rough patch ten years ago, we filed for divorce. At the same time, for my wife, being too close, spending too much time together, and communicating too often takes all of the mystery (and in turn, excitement) out of sex.

Some people (like myself) would never be able to enjoy a one night stand because I need a good deal of emotional closeness to be able to enjoy sex. That’s true, and it’s also a matter of degree.
